29 May Keeping the Secret
This youtube video is invaluable in explaining why adult survivors of child sexual abuse struggle to speak out. A very informative and powerful watch.
Children who are sexually abused are told to keep quiet, threatened or just have a knowing that to speak out is dangerous. In this Ted Talk by Kristin Jones, she explains in detail why this is so. Well worth a listen, and may go some way in helping those who are adult survivors and those who support them, understand more fully.
Love and light to all of you
Love and light to all of you
Suzanne Ashmore
Posted at 12:48h, 30 JulyHi Gloria,
I have ordered a copy of your book. The review in the Sunday Times was amazing. Yes, it is brave to break the silence and speak out, but there is always a time for it. Too early and the speaking can be emotional and devastating, but never too late. I was in my early 60’s when I wrote my book ‘Meltwater.’ The story of my abusive childhood and the Dissociative Identity Disorder that followed. like you I couldn’t get publishers interested because of the content and they have their eye on profits and popularity.
I went ahead and spent my own money using Mary Egan. I was pleased with her, she gave me great support and encouragement. But she is hellishly expensive. However I was determined that the book get out there and be read. In a way it tied up all my life into a beautiful small bundle which I could hold in my hand. I could say ‘There, I’ve done it and I’ve come out whole and strong.’ The writing process was a mission but so worth it.
There was interest from media in the book yet I got not a single print review or interview, even after they were promised. I was in the too hard basket! When it came down to it, the interviewers pulled out. Online reviews were thoughtful and very insightful. I appreciated the care with which they were written. For some, the book gave them courage to speak their own truth. And for me, If my book could change one life … That was enough.
I am pleased to see more women stand tall and let their voices be heard.