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Perception is interesting because whatever we perceive something to be becomes our reality. Not necessarily other people’s, just ours. We seem able to look at the exact same situation and...

I was reading Eckhart Tolle’s A New Earth the other day, and one line in particular stood out; ‘Treat the situation you are in as if you had chosen it’....

Sometimes we have no idea of the impact we have. Sometimes we can tell straight away, we’ve just got it wrong, and other times we have no idea. We don’t...

The problem with things ending is that they don’t check in with us first. If they had bothered, they would find we’re not interested right now, thanks anyway. We like...

I think kindness is underestimated, it has a power beyond what we could possibly imagine and an impact that spreads far and wide. ​Many people practice it without giving it a...

Like most of us starting the new year, I decided that setting a vision would be helpful and set me on the path for a new improved version of myself. In...

Is seen as having strength in the face of hardship, being able to withstand the challenges that come our way with fortitude and determination. Sometimes this happens easily, sometimes not...

We all have it, we just don’t realise it. Power presents itself in many forms every day. We have the power to say no to someone, we have the power...

I’m not sure I like tolerance very much, probably because I overdo it. A bit of a default position of mine that leaves me feeling taken advantage of and then...

Can leave us feeling left out and excluded from people and situations we wanted to be part of. At its worst we feel miserable and lonely, and at its best...

Is a common reaction when stress is present. It has us second guessing ourselves and becoming uptight about life in general. It also has the questionable honour of emerging as...

Sometimes it just hits without warning, and we feel like we’re wading through mud cloaked in a dark cloud of heaviness. It can arrive unexpectedly and stay longer than required. It is...